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Leaf

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For the first time in 14 years I don't have a Staffordshire Terrier or an American Pit Bull Terrier. For 14 years of my life I have dealt with intelligent questions, ignorant questions and predijust comments about myself and/or my CGC dogs.

This post is NOT about "pit bulls"

I took my girl Trinket to the park this afternoon to work on her Agility. She is a Papillon or a mix of (if she's pure she's poorly bred).

I always get comments about her, how cute she is.. "can I pet her" etc. Thats nice as a dog owner, but also distracting.

I got her A Frame set up, her tunnels, teeter, one hoopand weave poles along with some bars.



She was doing well - we had great runs.



As I was packing up a lady came up to me and started talking about her Shelties who do Agility. We talked for a while, had a great time. She asked if we had competed at all and I told her no. She went on to tell me all of the pros of doing so and asked who my trainer was. I told her I am working with Trinket without a trainer.

The lady thought it was odd and recommended several to me but I told her I wasn't interested in doing Agility with Trinket any more than as a hobby, excersize and bonding time.

She got a little huffy about it because she saw a lot of potential in Trinket, her form, stops, timing etc.

I finally told her that Trinket is deaf and therefore could not compete.

Well, THAT changed everything. Suddenly she saw faults in Trinkets weave pole performance (not tight enough, losing seconds) and how sloppy her stop was on the teeter (at one point Trinket only had one foot on the ground whn the board went down, instead of both).

She faulted me for "stressing the poor dog", making a mockery out of the sport and wasting my time.

Why are people like this? Trinket LOVES what she does, is high energy and adores showing off. I use the time as one on one bonding with her, as training to help keep her fit, active and in control (visual demand is great on a deaf dog), and as a stress reliever for myself.

Trinket was a "star" in that womans eyes until she found out Trinket is "defective".



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Stupid. :nosir:

Ever see that show about dog show parents? They followed around several people that were really into various types of dog shows- the breed type show and agility. These people were CRAZY! Totally obsessed and extremely competitive. Now, I've met some very nice people that show dogs and do agility training, including my hubby when he was in 4H, but unfortunately there's a lot of obsessive people too. Don't listen to anything people like that say. They're not worth your time and they're in those hobbies for themselves, not the dog.

Personally, I think the fact that you have trained a deaf dog to do agility at all speaks very highly of both you as a trainer and the dog for her ability to learn. Most people rely on voice/sound commands to train dogs and don't know the first thing about what to do with a deaf dog.
 
You know I've found that people like that (know-it-alls) usually have some sort of issue within themselves or feel there is a defect in their animal, child, etc.,

IGNORE those idiots.


 
You should have just told her it was cause of people like her that you don't compete:)might have shut her up.

what an amazing dog you have too. You don't need to compete to enjoy your time together
 
Trinket sounds like an awesome little dog - don't let someones ignorance get you down :( I'll bet that you and Trinket are enjoying agility far more than the "pro".

Pam
 
I agree with pamnock and everyone else.

Just ignore that mean lady. She's probably sitting there thinking now howawful she sounded. I hope so anyway.

Maybe sometime you can videotape the little guy and show us? ;)

I love watching dog agility.
 
Agility always looks so fun :) When I have a place of my own and finally get a dog, I know that's going to be one of the things I want to try.

Man, what a mean lady, though! :X Some people just get so crazy about things (Especially sports; any kind of sport) and it's hard when their craziness is directed at you. My Aunt Cheri breeds Basset Hounds, and while they don't do agility (Wow, how silly that would look!), she shows often, and sometimes she tells me stories about crazy people too.

I agree with Montana, though ;) Video tape little Trinket? I love Papllions -and- agility-watching, so I'm sure at least I'd like to watch her. (Eveyone else probably does too:) )

~Diana

(Edited for spelling errors, haha )
 
Wow! What a crazy lady. I just can't imagine someone saying something like that. I'm glad Trinket enjoys the agility, it sounds like lots of fun! I agree, I would love to see a video of her in action or even just a picture of her cute face and big old ears. Also, as a side note, I love pit bulls :D
 
:grumpy:Ignore people like that, you clearly told her that it was just for fun anyway, so why does it matter how "sloppy" things are. Ive been to a few ring craft classes now to see what their like and most seem too far up their own:censored2:

People like that really annoy me , they put people off who just want to work or show their dog for fun.
 
JadeIcing wrote:
:nonono:Can I slap her?:censored2:


Please!!!

People like that drive me crazy and make me mad. I just don't get it. How can you go from, "She's great" to "She's horrible"? It makes no sense. And by her complaining about the sport after spending alot of time talking about how great it is is just idiotic!! :grumpy:

Trinket sounds like an awesome dog. And don't let people tell you otherwise.
 
That's very rude of her to say that when she doesn't even know you! Obviously she was jealous for some dumb reason. Howcome Trinket can't compete if she's deaf? I don't know what to say except that i'm really sorry that you had to deal with her rude words and all. If I had been you I probably would have just not even bothered listening or something.
 
I too am wondering why she can't compete? is there a rule thats says a dog must be able to hear? if not and she does love it why don't you try just for the fun of it.
 
I think it's wonderful what you're doing with Trinket...I'd LOVE to see some video of it, if you can get someone to take one of you doing this with her! :)

I think that as long as you and Trinket are happy, then you're doing the right thing. She so obviously loves what she's doing...and you both obviously get so much out of it...that lady is just rediculous and clearly she's completely dilluted.

I think you should continue taking Trinket and loving what you do...because you're not only doing the right thing...you're doing Trinket a phenomenal lot of good. :)

Hugs!

Rosie*
 
Grrrrr some people honestly!

I think what you are doing is amazing (I would love to see the vids too ;))

Trinket souns like such a lovely dog, she must be very happy to have you to look after her and teach her lots of fun stuff. Lucky Trinket!!
 
Some people!! I don't know how they live with themselves. She has to live with herself, you don't. You know you have a great dog, and Trinket would probubly show up her dogs in any competition!!

Charma will get her in the end. This story has nothing to do with dogs, but..

A close friend of mine and her husband were unable to get pregnant and were on a waiting list to adopt an infant. They got a call that there was a baby available BUT she was deaf. They ultimately decided not to adopt her. Less than a year later Cheryl found out she was pregnant. Her son wasborn completely deaf in both ears.
 
People are so freakin ignorant it is unblievable! I think you do great work with Trinket and you help develop her other senses. There's nothing wrong with that! Hmph. It just angers me so bad.

Becknutt wrote:
A close friend of mine and her husband were unable to get pregnant and were on a waiting list to adopt an infant. They got a call that there was a baby available BUT she was deaf. They ultimately decided not to adopt her. Less than a year later Cheryl found out she was pregnant. Her son wasborn completely deaf in both ears.
That's so sad that people actually do that :(I could never turn a baby down for such a reason. Ok, I might understand if someone couldn't adopt becauseit were a severe handicap that requires special attention since not everyone knows how to handle it (not that I encourage people to disregard others with handicaps! I think I have proven myself in that department) But that child has every chance at a normal life! I feel bad for the son being born deaf, but I had to laugh at the parents. Serves them right.
 

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