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rumy91989

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I have two.

1) We currently have three rabbits--two males under 4 months old (both will be neutered when they reach full maturity) who will eventually live together completely (they share a cage during the day but are separated at night since Padfoot is new) and a female bunny, over a year, spayed, who lives on her own but plays in the communal area with the others when we're home (all are out for 4-8 hours a day).
One male, Tiger, has been with us for about two months. He and the female, Puff, get along very well--they cuddle and kiss and groom each other and play. It's very cute, and it is clear that Puff loves Tiger very much. However, Tiger acts exactly the same way with Padfoot, the new 14 week old male, as he does with Puff--he cuddles, kisses, and grooms, and Padfoot returns all of the affection and then some. Padfoot and Puff, however, have not been allowed to meet because through the cage there has been a lot of grunting and thumping and since Padfoot was rescued from a cage where he was routinely beat-up, we are going to save that introduction until we know Padfoot is well and settled in and Puff has calmed down. We may wait until after Padfoot's neuter. We are confused, though, because we were under the impression that bunnies really just pair up. However, Tiger seems to love both Puff and Padfoot equally. Is that normal? Can we expect Puff and Padfoot to eventually get along, or should we treat Tiger as an anomoly?

2) Human-rabbit bonding. Both Tiger and Puff are very affectionate--they run up to us for attention when they're out, they climb into our laps for brief periods, they nudge us and put their heads down to ask for pets, etc--and I assumed this is what rabbit-human bonding looked like. Padfoot is completely different, though. I am not sure exactly what's going on with him, but he runs to me when there are loud noises and he basically doesn't leave my lap when he's out. I'm worried that this is a fear response, though it seems odd that he'd see me as a safe place if he's afraid of me? Does anyone have experience with this type of behavior? When he's in my lap he does chew and closes his eyes and seems relaxed, so I'm not sure if this is just a different level of bonding or if it's behavior I should be worried about. I've attached a photo of one particular cuddle he seems fond of (he stayed there for almost two hours last night).

Padfoot Cuddle.jpg
 
Bonding a trio is certainly achievable - bunnies live in warrens where they are capable of having relationships with several different bunnies. Putting them in pairs is just the human way of giving them company without having to take care of too many bunnies! It looks like your three get on very well for a bunch of strangers, especially with Tiger giving out so much love. Once Padfoot is neutered and settled, you can go ahead with bonding the three of them.

You're lucky, you have such sweethearts! My buns aren't nearly as affectionate with me, exploring and flopping is much more important to them. I wonder why you would say that Padfoot is afraid of you, when he seems comfortable enough on your lap? Some bunnies do instinctively run and hide when something 10 times their size approaches, but that's just a cautious reflex, it doesn't mean he's scared of you personally.
 
Trios are possible, but usually people stick with bonding two because any more gets more complicated with more bunny personalities that need to mesh. All rabbit personalities are different so you'll have some rabbits that get along with most rabbits, some that get along with certain rabbits, and some that just don't get along with any other rabbits. Also keep in mind that young rabbits tend to get along with most rabbits and aren't fully matured yet and their personalities can sometimes change a bit when those hormones set in. That's usually when the real trouble starts :)

I agree that waiting til Padfoot is neutered will be the best way to go about it. That way his hormones won't get in the way and upset Puff, since she already isn't reacting to him very well. It's also possible that once she gets used to him being around, that she'll stop reacting negatively to him. In the meantime if you let him and Tiger have playtime together, just keep an eye on them. They are both getting near their hormonal stage, and while not all male rabbits fight, most of them will once they reach that age.

http://www.wheekwheekthump.com/2013...rs-guide-rabbit-bonding-everything-need-know/
http://www.rabbitnetwork.org/articles/bond.shtml

Padfoot is still settling into his new home. He just needs a little time to feel comfortable and realize he's safe. You may want to limit his contact with Puff, since they don't get along, at least until he's settled in more. Being around another rabbit that acts aggressively towards him, could make him nervous.
 
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